What can i say. There is alot of that going around not just where i live but across the country. I'm thinking there is something in the water. It seem to been an epidemic. This conflict in society have sparked inspiration for the t.v. show the secret life of the American teenager, and the life time movie the pregnancy packed. Shoot it seems that Sara Palin's Daughter Bristol Palin couldn't keep her legs closed either. She has made appearances in seventeen and on secret life on this not so secret issue.
But the questions is why the sudden spike in teen pregnancy. Could it have been the result of one accidental pregnancy being mistaken for new fad. Or that parents and school are not talking to these teens. i don't think we can put the blame on the parents and schools. We all know when we are doing something wrong and we all learn where babies come from in like 3rd science. I think it that's the info is going in one ear and out the other. It's not being apply. The thing is that to many teen think that every one is doing it when really its like less than 30%. Some of the most talked about people at my high school aren't even doing. But people think they are.So why is this happening why now. In the film the pregnancy pact they thought a group of girl decided to get pregnant after their friend got pregnant. When i saw the movie it was like a mirror of my school because it seemed to be happening the same way. The first one was an accident but when everyone in her clique got pregnant it seem that everyone that followed was planed.
But there is a 3rd option. Some girl think that if the have a guys baby that it will keep them around. but it's so not true. not all guys will even acknowledge that it's their baby. whether we like it or not it's a guy always have the option of walking away.I hate to say it but it's the sad truth. You don't really know them until something like this happens. I've seen this happen. And girls you don't have to take it you always have the option of getting a paternity test and putting the on child support. And maybe later on in their life's they will come around. If they do let them be apart of the child's life. Don't take it as an opportunity to get back with them its not about you it's about and the child's relationship. And i don't see why you would want somebody in your life that could hurt you like that in the first place.
But parents and loved one's we will never know what the answer to this question is until we sit and talk about. Because finding the answer could mean saving the trouble out future teens. So sit down and start talk. Kids talk to your parents, and parents talk to your kids about sex. Tell them what you want them to know. Just TALK and don't JUDGE
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